In February of 2014, I was offered an opportunity at my (former) full-time work outside of the home job to change positions. I gladly accepted the change. In fact, I had been yearning for this change for many years. I was excited to finally have the opportunity to pursue a path I had taken high interest in.
After a few months of working in said position, I became acquainted with and relied upon a certain individual who seemed to have all of the answers, when they were not clear to me. A colleague of mine pointed out that said individual had a "crush" on me. I dismissed the notion.
As time passed, the notion hung around. I began to notice said individual more in "that way". Yet, for some reason, I was still not assured that said individual was interested in me. Well, you're here. It's not a secret. Said individual is Mr. Vines.
I began to flirt with Mr. Vines. I remember one day, I snagged some gourmet cheese and crackers for me and my colleague, the one who pointed out Mr. Vines had a crush on me....
I offered Mr. Vines some cheese and crackers that day and he refused, politely several times. This was almost a deal breaker considering how much I love cheese. Plus, considering the level of flirtation I thought I was putting out, I didn't think he would refuse. I was bummed. From that moment, I figured the crush was out the door.
If I recall correctly, it was a few months later, when Mr. Vines and I began interacting after work, REGARDING work. Then it turned into a little bit more until we eventually arranged to meet at our colleague's home over Memorial Day Weekend 2014.
While it's only been a short time since May 24th, 2014, a lot has transpired since then. I am in LOVE with Mr. Vines. I want to be the future Mrs. Vines. I want to bear a child for Mr. Vines, so much that I'm going to have a "tubal reversal" (in my case Adiana reversal) so I can bear Mr. Vines's child.
I've damn near got the entire wedding planned out. For the first time in my life, I feel truly "in love". I have a 15 year old teenage son, so that's very hard for me to admit.
It's obvious that I'm in love, though. My son suddenly seems to have taken a jealous interest in me. As a teenager, it's unexpected that he would want to interact with me, but my son is craving my attention. It's good though. This jealousy has given me the opportunity to reconnect with my teenage son.
Over the course of the past few months, I've been able to reestablish a relationship with my son in an effort to begin building a new life with Mr. Vines.
I look forward to our future as the Vines' family and sharing with you! I hope you'll stay tuned. I have a few months worth of LIFE that I'm looking forward to sharing retroactively. Not to mention, there will be lots of trials and tribulations in the life of the future Mr. and Mrs. Vines.